So your baby’s crying. You’re trying desperately to shove your boob in their mouth but they just won’t latch. And maybe now you’re crying. First, take a deep breath. We’ve all been there. When babies are crying intensely, they become very disorganized and often can’t regulate enough to latch.
Then, try getting your baby to calm down by doing some skin-to-skin, rocking, singing, or even letting them suck on your finger. Then attempt latching again.
The next time your baby starts to rouse from a nap, try to feed them before the crying starts. Early feeding cues include bringing hands to mouth or face, light sucking motions, sticking out their tongue, and turning head to the side. It can be easier to start a feeding session when a baby is in a calm alert state than when they’re a screaming banshee.